Yesterday my wife and I celebrated our 47th anniversary. Our four children are in their thirties and forties now two of them each with three of their own and one of them expecting in January.
Someone has said
When our children our young they walk behind us as we show them the way; as they mature they walk beside us as together we discover the way; and when they are adults they walk before us to lead us in new ways.
Steve Mathonet VanderWell, a fellow pastor in the Reformed Church of America, gives elegant expression to this idea in his blog post The Adult Child Shall Lead Them. With him I want to say Thank You to my adult children for all the ways the have challenged and blessed. I think his words will ring true for you.
“Yes, life is fast and furious for them. But even more, what I notice is the way adult children influence and change their parents.”
— Read on blog.reformedjournal.com/2021/07/13/the-adult-child-shall-lead-them/